Offering condolences can be awkward no matter which side of the gesture you’re on. Friends and family may struggle to find the right words while the bereaved may feel like no one really understands what they’re going through. Unfortunately, there is no right way to make that process easier, but sympathy gifts can offer deep support can be a step in the right direction and can offer deep support.
The loss of a loved one is never easy and it is something that you never entirely get over. While the initial shock and pain may eventually ebb, there will always be a feeling of loss and sadness. Having a tangible way to remember your departed loved one, whether a family member, friend or beloved pet, can also be a tremendous source of comfort.
Whether you want to show your support to a grieving friend or family member or want a way of remembering your own loved one, there is a unique gift that can express your feelings in ways that words cannot. An angel statue, a picture frame to house photos taken during happier times, an inspirational book, these are just a few of the ways that you can memorialize lost loved ones.
In most grief support groups the prevailing sentiment is that grief is a very individual process. We each experience it differently and there is no right or wrong way of going about it. If having a special memento to help you remember your loved one facilitates the process for you, then you shouldn’t hesitate to find that special something.
If words fail you when approaching someone who is grieving, then perhaps giving a gift of remembrance will provide you with the perfect way of expressing your support. It can be difficult to know exactly what to say, but a thoughtful gift can demonstrate what words cannot. It can show your friend or family member that you care and that you are standing with them in their time of need.
Even the most sincere expression of sympathy can sometimes fall short of the mark. In most cases, it’s more for the benefit of the speaker rather than the individual who is grieving. It’s a way to try and alleviate your own discomfort at confronting their pain. You may mean well, but your words can fail to have the desired effect.
Sending a sympathy gift goes far beyond words. It demonstrates that you took the time to find something to bring comfort to your loved one. More than a mere expression of condolences, it is a glimpse into your own heart and can speak volumes. For it is the quietest of gestures that often say the most.
Grief is a very natural experience and with a beautiful and unique gift, you can bring comfort and strength beyond measure. Whether the process is your own or a loved one’s, you can lighten the load with a thoughtful remembrance. It’s the perfect way to ease toward deeper healing.
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